| Bondage: Restraining someone for mutual pleasure using various objects to do so such as ropes, scarves, ties, chains etc. as the restraining devices. |
| Discipline:The power that a Dom or Domme has over their submissive, either physically, mentally, or emotionally. |
| Dominate: A person (Dom-Male, Domme-Female) that is the controlling partner in a D/s relationship. The person with the power and the control over their submissive. |
| Submissive: A person that gives of themselves *completely* to their Dom or Domme. The person that is being controlled. |
| Sadism: Being aroused sexually by giving physical pain. |
| Masochism: Being aroused sexually by receiving physical pain. |
The term "D/s" (Dominance/submissive) is often
used interchangably with BDSM, but this is is an incorrect use of the phrase. Generally
speaking, most people that practice BDSM are involved with D/s relationships, however many
people that are in D/s relationships don't practice BDSM. A D/s relationship can be as
tame as simply holding your partner's wrists while making love, or it can be as extreme as
your imagination and BDSM can go.
REMEMBER:
BDSM is ALWAYS consentual, and should always
be done safely with a clear head.
Live these words:
Safe, Sane, and Consentual!
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By Sir Real |
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